Perhaps Newton’s Third Law explains it best. For every action there is an opposite and equal reaction. On Valentine’s Day 2020 the air was bubbling with love and optimism. Going in to Valentine’s Day 2021 is the opposite. Such are the inevitable ups and downs of life but I’m determined to make the most of the weekend.
Redeeming 20,000 frequent flyer points, I booked a roundtrip ticket to St. Croix, U.S. Virgin Islands. I left ORF about 6:30 AM and was beachside in time for lunch.
I’m spending the first two nights at a hipster, boutique hotel (adults only) on the west end of the island called The Fred (@sleepwithfred), short for Frederiksted. The USA bought the islands from Denmark in 1917 for $25,000,000; thus the Danish names. The whole concept of territories sounds a lot like taxation without representation to me. Not sure why we don’t either allow our territories to become independent or make them states like Alaska and Hawaii so, at least, they’ll get to vote. Having said that, there are many small and large advantages to traveling in the Caribbean while still being in the U.S. including the language, the dollar, electrical outlets, and the rule of law. Since it’s all U.S., there are no forms, no customs, and no passports required.
To find live music, I had to drive about 30 minutes on the left side of roads with serious potholes and no street lights to Christiansted. It would have been so much easier to stay in my room but I was determined to lift my spirits. Once I arrived, finding a parking space and making my way to the venue on the boardwalk was another adventure but it was worth the effort. A live band and lots of friendly people combined with random things like a school of tarpon that swims around the pier hoping for crumbs and a guy walking around with a Golden Retriever pup created a fun vibe.
Day Two starts with coffee, breakfast, and work via laptop by the ocean. Then a 40-minute drive to the north side the island for the top-rated hike. There’s very little traffic which I appreciate since driving on the left is a bit of a challenge. I have to really focus. Interestingly, the vehicles are from the U.S. and have steering wheels on the left which makes me wonder why the island still drives on the left. Jeep seems to be the preferred vehicle on the island which makes a lot of sense given the road conditions and the weather.
Signage is sparse but Verizon and iPhone maps work pretty well. To get to the Annaly Tide Pools, drive to the Renaissance St. Croix Carambola Beach Resort. Stop at the gate and the security guard will direct you to off-street parking and the short walk to the trail head. My iPhone maps sent me way up the mountain which was scenic but not the way to the trail.
I saw several mongoose, lots of lizards, a variety of birds, and dozens of hermit crabs along the walk through the rainforest. There were very few people hiking so I had the trail almost to myself. Once I got to the beach, there were several Jeeps that had brought people in to see the crystal clear, warm, tide pools but they were leaving as I arrived so I got to swim peacefully in the tide pools along with tropical fish and let the water rushing over the top of the rocks massage my shoulders. Heavenly! There’s a whole system of connecting tide pools but I didn’t explore past the first two.
The hike took about an hour each way and I stayed at the beach and tide pool another hour so it was a full afternoon. My protein bar and bottle of water sufficed but the romantic in me thought it would be a wonderful spot for a picnic and bottle of wine shared with the right person.
I returned to The Fred just in time to get a shower and dress for sunset, complete with a green flash, and dinner with friends.
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Day Three moved at island time. No hurry, no schedule. Coffee at a local cafe across from the beach, 
sitting in a beach chair watching the ocean roll onto the shore then back out again,
driving from the west end to the north side, walking around Christiansted and stopping for lunch, 
before checking in to the Buccaneer (@thebuccaneerstcroix). The resort is beautiful and my room has a large balcony with this amazing view.
Construction on the Buccaneer was first begun in 1653 and this choice property has been the home of many past dignitaries. It was converted from a castle/private estate to a hotel in 1947. Three beaches, three restaurants, tennis courts, a golf course, a spa & athletic center, two pools, and a dock are spread over more than 100 acres. I walk everywhere but there are golf carts and eager staff available. This is a view of the main building from the Grotto Beach. That was my favorite beach because it was always almost empty — so peaceful and quiet which is what I need most; sunshine, palm trees, and quiet time to think or to erase thoughts from my mind. There’s a tiki bar with a sweet, young woman offering cool drinks but I never saw more than 4 or 5 people on the entire beach. It seems people prefer the Mermaid Beach where there’s a cafe & bar, games, and is more central & more social. All the beaches that I’ve seen on the north side of the island have white sand and look like travel posters.
After getting checked in and enjoying the beach for a while, I decided to brave the roads again to drive to the Palms at Pelican Cove for live music and a fire dance show. A couple from Utah plus Tim, a NYC public school teacher, let me sit in the empty chair at their table just proving once again that there are kind, interesting, fun people everywhere.
Everything I want to do is outside and naturally social distanced but there are still COVID restrictions and people seem respectful of them. I’ve been asked to show my negative COVID-19 test a couple times. There is temperature taking at the gate to the resort, hand-sanitizer and masks pretty much everywhere, restaurants/bars close at 9:00 PM; it’s similar protocol to back home. No dancing!
Valentine’s Day 2021
Sunday morning, up at 5:30 AM for the short drive to Point Udall, the easternmost point in the U. S. Territories, for sunrise.
Back at the resort, a light rain passed over leaving this beautiful rainbow.
Part of the day was spent roaming around the Buccaneer with love songs in my head. It’s a day when we celebrate love so it’s no surprise songs kept creeping into my mind — “You are So Beautiful to Me,” “Here, There, & Everywhere,” “The Look of Love,” “Is This Love,” “Something,” and so many more. Where better to lie back and listen to music in my ear buds than under a palm tree on a white sand beach? (Aside: The weather is miserable back home — ice, power outages, sleet & rain for days.)
It certainly helps to know locals! Michael and Liz invited me to brunch at the Deep End with Steve Katz on guitar … old friends, excellent music, good food, and gorgeous scenery. The good life!
It might be boring to some, but walking on the beach at sunset is my idea of the perfect ending to any day. And, the sunset was spectacular! The air is consistently about 82 degrees (27.8 C) mid-day and 70 (21 C) degrees at night; the water is 80 degrees (26.5 C), perfect for rushing up on my sandy feet. This is what I want to remember when I think of Valentine’s Day 2021. I want to remember the feel of the sand and water and the look of the sky in all it’s glory; an acute awareness that I’m but tiny spec in this big, beautiful, uncontrollable world.
Monday, February 15 begins with a peaceful drive to Point Udall and another beautiful sunrise.
There are a couple beaches and parks nearby so I walked a trail before heading back to the Buccaneer. Next trip I need to walk the entire trail to Jack & Isaac Bay because I hear it’s gorgeous at the beach.
I planned a half-day trip to Buck Island but the currents and winds were too strong so all boat trips including snorkeling and diving were canceled. No worry; the resort is so large, there were places I still hadn’t seen. I borrowed a snorkel and mask from the dive shop and stayed close to shore. The currents were, indeed, strong and I got slammed onto some coral with sea urchins while trying to gracefully get out of the water. My hands took the brunt of it and I’m a little concerned about splinter pieces of sea urchin but I did the best I could to remove them then applied some neosporin from my travel first-aid kit.
The Whistler Beach had no one at all on it. 
This big iguana was just sunning on the boat dock. My version of the iguana’s pose was a frozen drink under the shade of a palm tree. So peaceful. It’s a struggle to get up to shower and dress for dinner. All too soon, another magical sunset appears and the day is over.
My room is very large and elegant with big French doors leading to the marble veranda. I sleep with the doors wide open so I can feel the breeze and hear the waves. Last night it started to rain which only added to the orchestra of natural sounds lulling me back to sleep. By morning, it was sunny again. This place really seems too good to be true. I feel rejuvenated already. Somehow, my sense of peace and wholeness is being restored with each passing sunset.
Last day–Tuesday, February 16 Michael and Liz surprised me with this very beautiful bracelet from Sonya’s where Liz works (https://www.sonyaltdstore.com). The Crucian hook is their special design. If you wear the bracelet with the hook pointed inward, it means your heart is taken. If it’s worn with the hook facing outward, it means you’re single. There are many original designs including one for each hurricane that hit St. Croix recently.
The flight home was easy and half-empty. No worry at all. I highly recommend St. Croix as a great option for a Caribbean getaway.
PS: First day back home I went to the doctor to get some of the sea urchin splinters out of my hands. It’s 36 degrees F and raining. Can I hold onto any of the sunshine I found in St. Croix?
“No borders, just horizons – only freedom.” – Amelia Earhart
“Looking hard into your eyes
There was nobody I’d ever known
Such an empty surprise to feel so alone.” Jackson Browne
Don’t let safety concerns stop you from experiencing the explosion of colors, music, culture, and cuisine in Cartagena!
Four nights of our 8-day stay were spent inside the walls of this historic area. 
It was easy to fly from Virginia; ORF direct to MIA then Miami direct to Cartagena. And, there’s no time difference so no jet lag. Just make sure to factor in the hour + that it takes to clear immigration upon return to Miami. (Note: Global Entry is worth it.) Also, the electrical outlets are the same as US so I didn’t need an adapter.
By early afternoon on the first day we were at one of countless boutique hotels, Casa Quero in the San Diego district. The entire old city can be walked and I pretty much walked it every day and night. I never felt unsafe. I don’t recall seeing any police but locals told me the old city is virtually crime-free. Funny, but it’s also pet-free. No animals are allowed. 
Every morning we were served a delicious breakfast of fruit, pastries, Colombian coffee, fresh-squeezed juices, and bright yellow eggs. 
Follow that with a walk on the old wall and you’ve got the start to a wonderful day. 
We made reservations for dinner occasionally but, mostly, we preferred to walk around and stumble into cafes with live music. “Champeta” is a fun style of dance music with electric guitar, bass, conga drums, and vocals that originated in Cartagena in the 70’s. It’s perfect for the Caribbean-party atmosphere. 
And there is a vivid Cuban influence in the music, food, and cigar sales.
Several evenings we walked to “Cafe del Mar” for sunset-viewing. The cafe is situated right on the old wall at its western-most point and is open from 4:30 PM to 1:00 AM daily. It features contemporary, live music and is packed with both locals and tourists creating a festive atmosphere. Arrive early if you want a seat and don’t be shy to ask if you can join others at table that has empty seats. We met a lovely couple from Brazil that way. 
One of our favorite restaurants, “Mardeleva”, had a Cuban band 7 nights a week. Most all restaurants serve fresh fish and ceviche. Being a pescatarian was no problem. 
Perhaps, the most celebrated Colombian author is Gabriel Garcia Marquez who wrote “A Hundred Years of Solitude.” One entire wall of the “Mardeleva” was covered in the novel. 
The weather was consistently low-90’s in the day and mid-70’s at night–perfect in my book. The mornings were still but a strong breeze began everyday about noon and continued after midnight.
And so many gorgeous doors.
Going inside the churches is always free.
I saw a lot of bridal parties including a couple riding in a horse-driven carriage and a big group from the US. 
Sculptures are common in the plazas. This sculpture by renowned Colombian artist/sculptor, Fernando Botero, is in Plaza San de Santo Domingo. His signature style depicts people and animals in exaggerated size. 
Leaving Cartagena temporarily, we took an hour and a half boat ride to the Rosario Islands. Many people go to the islands for a day trip to enjoy the white sand beaches, azure blue water, and diving/snorkeling but we opted for a two-day stay at Las Islas, an upscale eco-lodge with treehouses.
The treehouse architects/engineers created a masterpiece that is beautiful, functional and very fun.
Each treehouse features a private shower and jacuzzi, air conditioning, wifi, and all the luxuries you might want. The most impressive part was the tranquility created by the merging of nature and structure, a constant breeze, an amazing view, complete privacy, and the sound of the waves all day and night. 
The resort includes a private island that’s about a 5-minute boat ride away plus three restaurants, each with its own character. Breakfast is on this pier, 
lunch is at a beach cafe on the sand, and dinner is at a very elegant restaurant up on a hill.
All the construction materials blend with the natural environment.
And the dramatic lighting adds to the atmosphere. So many of the buildings have walls but no roofs or vice-versa, roofs but no walls, so that it’s questionable whether you’re sitting inside or outside. 
My grilled lobster with coconut rice cost about $30 US. 
Back in Cartagena, we spent the next two nights at the Hotel Santa Clara (Sofitel). It’s definitely one of the nicest hotels I’ve ever stayed at. 
Built on the site of an old convent, the walls of the former structure are still standing. Every evening at sunset three monks in long, brown robes with hoods covering their faces walk through the lobby and pool area ringing bells. 
The last two nights of the trip were spent at Hotel Monaguillo de Getsemani. It’s technically right outside the old city but many years ago it was inside before part of the wall fell apart. Our small hotel was just two blocks from the old wall at the clock tour and cost about $105 per night which included a big breakfast. When you enter the Getsemani area, you notice that it’s less gentrified and less affluent than inside the historic area.
It’s full of hostels, street art, and a young, lively vibe. At night backpackers hang out in the streets and eat from the food stands. 
There’s a popular dance spot called “Havana” that has a live band and dancing every night. Although it was the only place I saw that charged a cover, there was a line down the block waiting to get in. 
After a long day of walking and site-seeing in 90 degree weather, we passed on the dancing and opted for dinner at “La Casa Della Pasta” where a delicious pasta dinner and a glass of red wine cost about $9 per person total. The tab always includes tax and a 10% tip. The 10% tip is technically voluntary but it’s easy and no additional tip is expected. I actually liked it better than the US system of adding whatever you think is appropriate.
The street art is terrific!
I saw at 4 or 5 artists working on pieces that seemed far too beautiful to have been done largely with spray paint on bumpy, old walls but they came alive over the course of the two days. 
This gorgeous painting was on the wall of one of my favorite cafes, “El Cabildo.” I loved the delicious frozen drink called “mango limonada” that is available with or without amber rum. 
Just outside of town sits a huge fort called Castillo de San Felipe. A cab ride from the old city to the castillo is just $3 US. Construction of the fort was started in the sixteenth century then fortified over many years to withstand sieges from the British, French, and other invaders.
Way up on a hill just outside of town is a former convent (Convento de la Popa; the cloister and chapel of Nuestra Señora de la Candelaria de la Popa) which dates back to 1607. 
The view of Cartagena from the top of the hill is worth the trip, plus the chapel and grounds are very nice. 
At night the convent is lit up in purple and can easily be seen from the old city. I took this picture of La Popa in the distance from a rooftop bar on a warm, breezy night. 
What I don’t have are pictures of the beautiful women. There’s definitely something uniquely attractive about Colombian women–their style, shape, coloring, all come together in such a lovely way; think of Shakira.
On our last night, Daniel opted for a watermelon-flavored hookah pipe.
It’s always great going somewhere new but, yes, I will likely return to Morocco. In a world of globalization and homogenization, Morocco retains its character. It’s affordable, safe, and so beautifully unique.
Wow! I felt like I was walking in a dream all day as we strolled through the medina (old town) of Chefchaouen, commonly called the blue city or blue pearl. 
The various shades of blue all blend together perfectly with just the right amount of white and accent colors.
The songs make Morocco sound so inviting. It’s been on my short list of places I want to visit for quite a while. Finally, my son, Daniel, and I made a plan and here we are! As I write this, I’m at a cafe on a hill overlooking the medina (old town) of Fez. It’s the 29th of November and cold and wet at home but here it’s about 75 degrees and sunny. I can’t tell you how glad I am to be here rather than in Black Friday madness back home.
After a drive into the Atlas Mountains and an overnight stay in Skoura, the next few days were spent in the Sahara Desert. We signed up with a company called “Desert Luxury Tours” and opted for 2 nights glamping in canvas tents with comfortable beds, tables with linens, and all the comforts of home. But that’s not the good part. Life at the camp revolves around nature — sunrise viewing at 7:30 AM, sunset viewing at 6:30 PM, campfire after dinner, then star gazing at 10:00 PM. 
When the camp lights were turned off, the sky lit up like a planetarium! Then, as if on queue, a shooting star ignited and shot across the night sky! So many sand dunes everywhere called to Daniel to jump on a snowboard and head downhill. He said it was impossible to turn but also impossible to get hurt because the sand is so forgiving when you fall. 
One morning we rode camels over unspoiled desert sand hills for an hour, enjoyed nuts & raisins and hot tea made over a small open fire, walked around a while then slowly made our way back to camp.
Wherever you are, five times a day, the call to prayer over loud speakers reminds you that 99% of the Moroccan population is Muslim. The streets/alleys in the medina are ridiculously narrow and dark. I’m told it’s dangerous, even for the locals, to go out in the medina after dark. 
Many have a small door inside the larger door. The small door is used for people and the larger for horses and ceremonies. And many have two knockers–the smaller indicates a woman or father/husband/brother of the woman of the home is calling. The larger knocker lets the woman know that she should not open the door. 
The doors to the mosques, mausoleums, and church schools are decorated to excess.
I wasn’t allowed to go into the mosques and holy places but I could stand at the door and look in. 
The Blue Gate is the main entrance from the West. No cars or vehicles are allowed inside the medina. 
I get totally lost walking down the narrow streets but I noticed there are sections such as the spice street, the meat alley, and the fabric area. The beautiful fabrics are made from natural materials and natural dyes. The red dye in this picture is made with poppy flowers. 
This man is weaving with a combination of wool, cotton and other natural fibers. Perhaps, it’s good that I have just a small backpack. Otherwise, I’d be tempted to buy way too much. 
The tannery is the biggest trade in the Fez souq. I was told there are about a hundred families who have operated it for many generations, passing down the ancient methods and using only natural dyes. The animal skins are from camels, cows, goats and sheep. We held mint leaves to our noses to mask the animal odor. All animals are killed in the halal method of one quick strike with a super-sharp knife to minimize the pain to the animal. 
Every dinner is delicious. The Moroccan spices (cumin, saffron, cayenne, cinnamon, turmeric, ginger, aniseed, and paprika) are so aromatic. Eating a vegetarian diet has not been difficult for me. Daniel enjoys the chicken and lamb. 
Dinner isn’t served until 7:30 PM or later. Live music and belly dancers generally show up at 10 PM.
My mother (93), daughter (30) and I booked a Mother’s Day weekend in Bermuda. On approach to landing, my first impression was the many shades of blue – blue skies with puffy, white clouds fading into azure blue waters with white sand beaches.
I truly don’t ever remember seeing water so clear and beautiful. The 21-mile long island is still under British rule and it’s a direct reflection of the UK; very different from nearby Caribbean islands. The airport is in St. George and our resort was at the extreme other end of the island. A 40-minute taxi ride at about $50 gave us a good overview of the architecture and landscape. We passed neat, well-maintained, pastel-colored homes and commercial buildings. Even the gardens had a British feel to them. There’s no question that this is a desirable location for wealthy people. It’s just a two-hour flight from NYC. We were told that Michael Douglas has a home here (his mother was a native of Bermuda) and former-NYC Mayor Bloomberg also has a home here. Our taxi driver told us it’s illegal to take pictures of others, whether famous or not, since it’s considered rude. Papparazzi are not allowed.
Meals were uniformly tasty, fresh, and pricey. Fresh fish, lobster and other seafood were prevalent. Birds flew in and out of the 30 ft tall restaurant and each evening we had a majestic view of the sunset. I was completely shocked one evening when, at the moment the sun disappeared below the horizon, I saw a green flash! Seriously! It was a shade darker than lime green and was explosive like fireworks.
Never out of view of the ocean, every morning began with an excellent breakfast served by friendly staff. In fact, everyone we met on the island had such a positive, welcoming attitude. Either the locals understand the importance of tourism on their economy or they just have extremely nice personalities; perhaps, both. 
The beach, sunshine, relaxation, and shared time were our main interests but we took advantage of the one rainy day to ride the local bus to Hamilton (about $4 per person). Front Street was lined with cafes and small shops selling vacation attire, souvenirs, and Cuban cigars. 
Nothing’s cheap. It seemed like most things cost double or triple what they would at home. Shopping is easy because the American dollar is accepted as equal, dollar for dollar, to the Bermudian currency. And, of course, English is the native language.
We noticed that there were a lot of pregnant women among the tourists. Apparently, this is a top spot for a “babymoon” because it has no Zika virus scare from germ-carrying mosquitos. Everyone with whom we spoke was a repeat visitor with many people saying they’ve been coming once a year for decades. Golfing seems to be one of the big attractions. Supposedly, Tiger Woods played at the PGA golf course next to our resort.
Alas, all good things must come to an end. I won’t soon forget how easily and quickly I can be on the beaches of Bermuda complete with the crystal blue water, white sand, and magical sunsets.
The weekend was marked with beauty–beautiful water, weather, people, and my beautiful mother and daughter. 
“All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.” Abraham Lincoln
I was honored to accept an invitation to attend the University of Southern California (USC) Annual Real Estate Law and Business Forum as a guest of the USC Gould School of Law. My thought was to take in the conference and get ideas for the VA State Bar (VSB) annual real estate conferences. A side benefit was to meet the author of the text I use when teaching Real Estate Transactions at Regent University Law School. Happily, I experienced all of this and more.
Rick Caruso, billionaire, Chair of the USC Board of Trustees, Pepperdine Law alumus, and CEO/founder of Caruso, an American real estate development company, was the keynote speaker. 
Listening to him talk about his experiences in mixed-use developments was fascinating. He highlighted the economic and aesthetic value of green space, trends in retail rentals, and trends in transportation that affect parking requirements. Some of the other important speakers addressed cannabis law sections, pro bono practice, 55+ housing trends, and commercially viable housing in high-dollar areas such as New York City. Virginia is well behind the curve in most of these areas but Northern Virginia is leading our state with the new Amazon complex. A fun fact is that the building plans had to be modified to remove all escalators because they aren’t dog-friendly.
All along our drive, the hills were full of brightly-colored wildflowers!
I’m told they’re extra-abundant this year due to the wildfires that scorched the earth a few months earlier. 
Next stop, Santa Barbara! No surprise, but Santa Barbara is a very stylish city with the ocean on the West and mountains in the East. 
Honestly, it looks the way I expect a California town to look — full of beauty and money with lots of excellent restaurants and chic boutiques. Santa Barbara appears to be the home of the beautiful people, much more than Los Angeles with its pollution, congestion, and homelessness. 
The next day, we hopped around small towns in the Ynez Valley. Our time limitation only allowed us to stop at two of the many wineries. I could have spent much longer here playing corn hole on the lawn and soaking up the natural beauty of the countryside.
Next stop was the quaint town of Solvang. This is a funny, little town settled by Danish immigrants. It still holds much of the old culture. There were cafes and pastry shops galore but also a lot of other historic buildings. 
And, from Penn Station I took a cab to Central Park. Voila! I was in NYC for a weekend of friendship, love, and diversion … good things in the midst of bad.
The picture above is Columbus Circle at 8th Avenue, a couple blocks from my hotel. It’s full of great places including the Museum of Arts & Design with a lovely restaurant (Robert) on the 5th floor and the Time Warner Center with some upscale shops and a jazz club. This picture is a small corner of Robert where I enjoyed Sunday brunch with live music. The design of the room is delightful and the view of the park is even better. The menu, food, and service were characteristically excellent as I expect in NYC. 
When it’s a clear day, the view from the top floor cafe/patio of the Whitney is gorgeous. It’s a tiny spec in this picture but looking out on the Hudson, you can see the Statue of Liberty. 
